Blissful Disagreements™

Disagreements are crucial in building stronger relationships. Discover the freedom of engaging in ‘Blissful Disagreements’. The beauty of Blissful Disagreements is that regardless of the outcome - all parties feel satisfied. We are living in an era of rapid and instant global communications. The ability to clearly interact with others without creating division or separation is the goal of Blissful Disagreements. We have observed the benefit of freeing ourself from old unproductive patterns of communication by choosing a conscious alternative!

In our relationship work we have come to know the importance of:

1. Knowing our Relationship Style

2. Awareness of the 4 Stages of Relationships

3. Training in Conscious Conversations

4. Navigating with a Relationship Map

5. Understanding the difference between:

- The Situation

- The Story about the Situation

- The Activation or Deactivation of an Issue

6. Practicing with a Magical Mirror

We believe that by knowing how to navigate the emotional landscape experienced while in relationship we are capable of more intimate and fulfilling inteactions with our Self and others. We know the importance of being in conversations with others whether they agree with us or not!

Our formula for performing a Blissful Disagreement is:

1 Situation

+ 2 or more Stories

+ Disagreement

+ A Conscious Conversation

+ Issue Deactivation

= An Unifying & Uplifting Experience that we have named a Blissful Disagreement.

We have been developing these concepts within our own marriage and with thousands of students, clients and workshop particants over the past 36 years. We are excited to present this chapter of our upcoming 'Enlightening Relationships' book with others whenever possible. As workshop presenters we emphasize direct experience and practical application. There is always an abundance of laughter, plenty of group interaction, and numerous opportunities to immediately try out our ideas in all the various relationships in our life.

(PS: If you “Disagree” with our premise . . . well, you really do need to join us!)

Check out our calendar page for our next Blissful disagreement Seminar.

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Gopal and Radha Bello